because when you start you think you know it all, but you don't, heck I've been doing this for almost 5 years and I think I am just now getting to where I feel confident enough to let my girl take care of the tank for a weekend without fear that it might crash without daily care while I am gone.
anemone in a new tank is equivelent to a death sentance, we say it because it is true...we've been there, we've killed anemone's when we were irresponsible newbies and we hate to see others make the same mistakes...you found RC, now take the advice, I didn;t even know RC existed until 8 months in, so you have a head start over me when I started