As others suggested switching out for stacking headers makes it easy to make quick changes but you could just as quickly solder onto the unused pins that you need either on top of the motor shield or on the bottom of the uno. It's still easily un-doable just needs the use of the soldering iron.....
For testing purposes you can also just yous jumpers to make connections, it's not pretty but for testing before soldering it gets the job done.
AAAAHHHH... I get it. So how do I know which pins from the Arduino board my motor shield actually needs and uses? Once that is determined then I can figure which pins I now have available. I have a soldering iron and I'm getting pretty clean with my connections. I will order those headers. Also, why wouldn't the creators of the motor shield make it with stacking headers?
...Sorry for all the noob questions but there's just a few details here that have really hung me up, and even when I do research it's really hard to find answers to my specific questions sometimes. Once these hardware issues are worked out I'm on to programming. Thank you, once again, for all your contributions.
EDIT: I think I found the answer to the pins being used, can anyone validate this? I got it from adafruit's website.
---What pins are not used on the motor shield?
All 6 analog input pins are available. They can also be used as digital pins (pins #14 thru 19)
Digital pin 2, and 13 are not used.
The following pins are in use only if the DC/Stepper noted is in use:
Digital pin 11: DC Motor #1 / Stepper #1 (activation/speed control)
Digital pin 3: DC Motor #2 / Stepper #1 (activation/speed control)
Digital pin 5: DC Motor #3 / Stepper #2 (activation/speed control)
Digital pin 6: DC Motor #4 / Stepper #2 (activation/speed control)
The following pins are in use if any DC/steppers are used
Digital pin 4, 7, 8 and 12 are used to drive the DC/Stepper motors via the 74HC595 serial-to-parallel latch
The following pins are used only if that particular servo is in use:
Digitals pin 9: Servo #1 control
Digital pin 10: Servo #2 control
---Which pins are connected to the DC/Stepper motors?
The DC/Stepper motors are NOT connected to the Arduino directly. They are connected to the 74HC595 latch which is spoken to by the Arduino. You CANNOT talk directly to the motors, you MUST use the motor shield library.