I agree, we definitely run a lot more blue in our tanks than is natural, especially in shallow waters. If you go down to 60 ft or so it starts to look a lot more blue as the red end of the spectrum is near completely gone. Natural reefs like natural spectrum tanks look more washed out though. The colors never pop the same ways which is why most of us go more blue. If you want that more natural look go with plasma lights especially for the big tank. They are designed to exactly mimic natural sunlight.
To piggy back on your previous statement about Tahiti, I noticed an explosion in post settlement larval fish when I was in Aruba back in March. I had never seen this but the reef was literally covered in billions of tiny silvery fish. The dive guide had said that there was a cooling in December and January that led to an upwelling event which brought up the cooler deep water which is full of nutrients. This caused a massive plankton bloom and triggered a mass spawning event. I wonder if something similar happened on the other end of the world.
On the butterfly topic, I really think it is all about getting very young fish and training them over to prepared foods early on when their feeding behaviors are more plastic. Once a fish lives years in the wild and gets accustomed to certain foods, it is stressful to no longer have those foods available. That stress causes a reduction in welfare which ultimately starts the downturn we all see when we try difficult species. I really think the best chance of success is to get small fish in groups and quarantine them with similar species who have already been trained to take prepared foods. Being in groups helps relieve stress in small fish and while feeding behaviors are largely innate, there has to be some aspect which can be learned.
On a side note, I heard you had a conversation with my client Kevin the other night. I have only been back for a little over a year now taking care of his tanks after 10 years living in New Orleans. Every system has its intricacies and every system has a learning curve when you first start them up. I am sure yours new ones will be no exception. If you ever want to pick our brains let us know.