This is pretty much the reason why I won't buy corals online....EVER.
Drive to the store, pick them out to insure quality, and drive them home VERY FAST to your tank. I get nervous picking up stuff in the SF Bay and driving them two hours. I would expect white sticks after being shipped. I think anytime it is a success, luck is on our side.
I think if people are going to mail order, I think this is going to be a risk that is going to have to have a consequence of failure once in the while. Perhaps another mode of shipper that caters specificly to this type of service.........Do they throw donor hearts for transplants into the belly of a 747 with grandmas fruit cake and your Sports Illustrator football phone? This is a fragile, perishible item that that may not be shipped the best mode of transportation to begin with.
Though it may be a rare coral to you, to the shipper its just another brown box to be thrown on and off the plane, be it 100 or 0 degrees, between the union mandated breaks.
Sorry this happened, but I think its a risky thing to ship these sensitive corals in the first place, and it is quite possible unreasonable or just plain impossibe to garuntee the coral is alive when you get it.
Was there not a local source or within driving distance for you to get the coral yourself, before you decided on this risky venture? Because one would have to admit this is a life and death situation, for the coral, and transporting it by these means is very risky IMO.