I also bought a small $10. frag of some purplish red sea xenia. I'm going to add some silver/blue Anthelia soon.
I'm taking a new approach with my soon to be revived reef- frags, frags, frags. Since I am now a firm believer that you can't say something is doing "well" in your tank until you've had it at LEAST six months, I think frags are the way to go.
I want variety, yet before I was too anxious to "fill" the tank quickly. This has left me with the extra live rock and less space. I spent too much money before. Now I like finding a nice frag for $10. or $15.
I'm also learning that oftentimes, especially in smaller tanks, that species oriented or "type" systems do much better.
Let's face it, my closed, "natural" system is not very good for sps.
Maybe in the future, when the tank is very established, I will try a nice milli or two..or some easy digi- which did very well in my tank.
I should keep some of the LPS that I originally wanted to keep...I was too worried about aggressive types...that's less of an issue now than some of the other REAL problems I have had.
Mainly though, I plan on limiting my tank to mainly zoos and rics. Some of the most beautiful tanks I have seens are layeres in Zoos, Ricordia, and various Yuma. For my system, that's best quality is the natural filtration...that doesn't strip nutrients from the water column...these are the best options...
Unfortunately, clams are probably not right for my tank. I may start a clam tank in the future, but I am starting to believe that clams are just better kept in species tanks.
That being said, there were other things that hurt my clams chances...unknown nips from my old angel and pinched mantle, which I think spread...were two....hopefully, if I have the tank VERY established again...I will get brave and do ONE clam....and really CARE for it.