Thank you for a rational AND respectful response. There are others who have done the same in this thread, so thank you to all.
One thing I am finding painfully frustrating is not getting a straight, respectful response to my posts on reef central.
I wouldn't be posting if I didn't care, so the last thing I need is an "I'm better than you" response. I actually got a response earlier today, philisophizing about dogs and tails.....what the bloody h!## does that have to do with reef keeping?
It is people like Brooksreef that make this forum worth visiting.
And, I couldn't agree more. Do the best you can with what you have. Enjoy your fish/corals, but please be aware of when your fish outgrow your tank and take action to keep them healthy.