sorry for your loss.
definitely kick that coral banded shrimp to the curb, or if you have a sump, put him there. they're too mean to slow moving fish. i would also caution with the anemone and dragonets. they can be stung and injured by them. some have had success keeping those two together, some have not. just something to consider.
are you running a sump/fuge for you tank? i'll be honest, 4 months is pretty fast to be adding a dragonet in my opinion. 6 months would be better, a year would be ideal. i would also strongly encourage you, if you're not running a sump/fuge, to set one up. these guys are prolific pod hunters, and can decimate them in short order.
as always, here is my standard list of links for pre-dragonet reading:
http://reefcentral.com/forums/showthread.php?t=2374330
http://reefcentral.com/forums/showthread.php?t=2367532
http://www.reefcentral.com/forums/showthread.php?t=2363996
they're fantastic fish, hands down my favorite, and given the right set of conditions actually easy to keep. getting to, and maintaining, those conditions can be tricky though.
if you decide to get another one in the future, choosing a healthy specimen is paramount. make sure that it is moving around the tank and "pecking" at things. this is how they forage. it should be active and focused. gliding around nearly oblivious to everything else. if you don't see it alert and eating, don't buy it. as steve and skr8 said, this is often a sign of cyanide captured fish.
second, take a good look at the body of the fish. due to their specialized feeding requirements these guys often come in quite underfed, in some cases on the brink of starvation. you want to make sure that the stomach isn't sucked in, and that there are no sharp lines running down the size. a well fed mandy looks like a little technicolor sausage.
finally, keep an eye on the lower back and the tail. some collection methods can include harpooning these poor little guys, which can lead to injury and paralysis. just something to note.
picking a good specimen aside, i highly recommend preparing supplemental food for your new arrival. stocking your tank with pods, culturing pods, culturing baby brine shrimp (nauplii), making pod piles, setting up a productive reufigium, making a diner or PaulB style feeding station, are all excellent ideas to help increase the chances of long term survival for your new friend. the pods in the tank will always be the primary food source, but supplemental feeding can go a long way to helping maintain stability and buffer against any unforeseen circumstance.
as an illustration, here is my girly the day i got her in the acclimation box:
she was pretty skinny. not dangerously so at that point, but not far off.
here she is about 6 months after we got her:
quite a remarkable difference.
here she is just last night, had her well over a year now: