The 3rd prong on a outlet is the ground and like you mentioned most older homes don't have a ground. Have you took the outlet out to see if there is a ground ran there and just not hooked up to the outlet? The neutral (white wire) will serve a similar purpose as a ground if there isn't a ground wire there. The 3 prong adapter you put I a 2 prong outlet doesn't do anything as far as grounding goes, it just allows you to plug in a plug with a ground. I would assume that your wire is 14 gauge connected to a 15 amp breaker ( this is how my current home is wired and my 220g runs without any issues. I did put a dedicated 20amp breaker with 12 gauge wire just in case I needed it, this could also be a option)
No, a neutral will not serve a similar, or even remotely, similar purpose as a ground. The notion of neutral and ground is indeed a confusing one, primarily because of unfortunate terminology. The neutral is the ground
ed conductor, the "equipment ground" or in Europe: Earth, is the ground
ing conductor.
The NEC says that under
certain conditions, you can ground all metal parts of enclosures used to install service equipment by the ground
ed neutral conductor on the supply side of the system. When you're using this type of ground
ing scheme, this includes the service weather-head, service raceway, service meter base, and service equipment enclosure. Also under certain conditions, you can ground all metal parts of enclosures used for wiring the elements of a separately derived system (SDS) by the ground
ed neutral conductor on the secondary side of the transformer. This includes the transformer's secondary conductors. The NEC also says you can use the ground
ed neutral conductor to ground the non current-carrying metal parts of frames and enclosures making up an electrical system.
The OP's residence does not fall within the certain conditions, and his residence, unless it is a multi-floor high rise condo structure or the like, or other "odd" occupancy considering the age. If there is no ground in the box, there is no ground in the box, and the neutral is not going to do the job of the ground (or earth.)
The purpose of the ground
ed (neutral) conductor is a power return path.
The purpose of the ground
ing conductor (ground/earth) wire is for operator/equipment safety. Its purpose is to provide a return path in the case of a momentary fault, to prevent the current from going somewhere we don't want it. If there is no ground
ing conductor in the box, there is no ground
ing conductor in the box, and the ground
ed conductor (neutral) is not going to do the job of the ground
ing conductor (or earth.)
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sawcreatives: Two-prong to three-prong adapters—these can only be safely used on a
grounded (or earthed) two-prong outlet. A pig-tail tester will light up on a grounded two-prong outlet if you touch one lead to the smaller slot on the outlet, and the other lead to the screw in the middle of the outlet. If this is the case, you can safely use a two-prong to three-prong adapter, as long as you secure it to the outlet with the cover plate screw. Any other use of a two-prong adapter is unsafe. I highly doubt that it is grounded, however if the box is metal, and the wires run in conduit, it very well could be.
There does not need to be a ground
ing conductor for the proper operation of a GFCI receptacle. Rather than using an adapter, install a GFCI receptacle or two. This is certainly going to be "safer" than using an adapter. It is not as "safe" as it could be, with a ground
ing conductor in the electrical system, because if the metal housing of an external pump becomes energized for instance, the GFCI will not trip, (till you give it a path to ground,) nor will the breaker trip. The latter being the purpose of the ground
ing conductor, as a direct short to the housing will trip the breaker, likely before a human makes contact with the housing, making the GFCI redundant, in the case of a grounded (earthed) motor or ballast housing for instance. (Do use a GFCI however, what I would do with it, is irrelevant.)