A couple of things here - speaking from experience and having the same ideas as you in previous builds:
If it doesn't "float" in your tank - the skimmer can't be used to remove it. Skimmers do not remove detritus. Skimmers aren't designed to remove anything but dissolved organics.
It doesn't really matter how much flow you have in your tank - your always going to have a spot that's going to collect detritus that's going to need to be siphoned out.
I have two tanks:
150 gallon 5 foot w/ frag racks and two MP40's and one MP10 (Back wall). I still get detritus.
300 gallon: 8 foot long w two MP 60's and two MP 40's (back wall). The arrangement of the rock work was done carefully to allow the MP60's full unimpeded flow from wall to wall. I still get detritus.
So it doesn't really matter how much you can keep the particles suspended - it'll still going to need to be exported somewhere.
Skimmer overflow after filter sock change:
This is bad: you still have detergents in your socks after cleaning. This can be due to several things some of which are not obvious.
All filter socks, even brand new filter socks ran through the washing machine need run again with no detergent (a full rinse).
Your choice of normal detergent for regular laundry plays a role too. I use Tide dry detergent for normal laundry. I've found the tide pods leave some sort of detergent in the washer for a cycle or two. Liquid detergents are even worse.
Lastly, where you put your detergent in the washer: if you use the little cup or the receptacle (instead of putting it directly on your laundry or in the bin) - it takes forever for that little cup to clean itself out. So even if you rinse your filter socks with a water cycle only - you still get detergents into the socks.
I soak my soaks in 1 cup of bleach in a 5 gallon bucket. After I collect twelve socks (thats as many as I can fit in a 5 gallon bucket) - i run them through the washer with 1 cup of bleach. I then run another cycle with dry oxyclean. I then run another cycle with nothing (water rinse cycle). I dont have any problems with detergent left on the socks.
I change my socks in both tanks every two days (was running three days but I started to get Cyano - two days seems to be keeping this in check along with weekly water changes instead of water changes every two weeks). That's 12 socks a week since both tanks hold two socks. I siphon detritus once a month while the tank is running directly into the filter socks. When I do that I make sure to rinse the socks with a garden hose before I put them into the bleach soak bucket.
If it were me and I haven't dissuaded you from your idea: Build out the system to allow the possibility to use filter socks in the future. Run it without filter socks and see what happens. If it doesn't work - you can switch over to using socks.