Mine still goes into panic attack mode very often, needs xanax or something. Goes into fin up lock-down mode. Will take some time to get comfortable and relax. I helps if you associate your presence with a little snack. Mine will eat most anything. Loves dried seaweed, formula 1 and 2 pellets (has small mouth so small pellets easiest for him), but favorite is flake food. Not quite so excited about mysis.