You know, when the moderator closed the thread where all of this happened on, he or she did mention that you posted what you did on a public forum.
I don't think it wise or healthy to hold grudges or suspicions, but suffice it to say that you are now unfortunately realizing the full ramifications of what you did.
I know you learned your lesson before this happened but I want to express my sympathies for your family having to deal with this issue now, that is never fun, and I'm sure they feel a lot of regret in this whole thing and probably a certain amount of helplessness. I mean, there are families out there dealing with sons who drink underage, do drugs, get into fights and all kinds of *really* serious stuff that more directly impacts others. I don't think a parent would expect to have to deal with the FWC.
I can see how it must be hard for them to deal with having to implement a punishment to you, as what you've done has directly affected them, and for someone like you that has got to really, really feel (rhymes with "city")...
I think the best you can do is man up and try to work out something with the comission if they return, but I don't know your circumstances, and see if there is any way you can take on the full responsibility of what is going on. I feel that keeping reef tanks, while yes, definitely a privledge, are also a valueable educational experience and I guess I just sort of disagree with them wanting you to take down your tanks.
Of course, it is your personal business with them but I will cross my fingers that you two can work something out.
I don't think you're a bad person or had bad intentions, but unfortunately there are consequences to our actions
Just remember if it don't kill ya it makes you stronger, I just hope you aren't discouraged by this and are able to take a lot away from it as a growing young adult. I made a lot of mistakes when I was your age when it came to personal choices, not so much ones to get me in trouble with the law, but things I've kept with me and have learned and grown from. Hopefully it will help you more than hurt you as you grow up.