I took a look at the thread. I am not a physician, but I have been around dangerous marine organisms for more than a few years.
I doubt that your problem was caused by a stomatopod. The infections I mentioned developed over days and were chronic inflammatory reactions. The cartilage of the infected joints was completely destroyed. The infection did not respond to the usual off the shelf antibiotics such as Cipro or Clindamycin. The best guess is that a chitinolytic bacteria from the stomatopod was responsible, but all attempts to culture it failed. In the end, amputation seemed the only way to stop the spread of the infection - which it did.
I work with blue-rings and know a fair amount about the symptoms of TTX envenomation. They don't fit either the described pain or time course.
The first thing that I thought of was a cone, but you didn't find one. The venoms of cone shells are so varied that it is difficult to predict the symptoms that might present themselves. Throw in a possible allergic reaction and who knows.
Some coelenterate toxin is also quite possible. Palytoxin and irukandje syndrome are just a couple of examples of extreme toxicity - although the symptoms described seem a bit off.
The bottom line is that when dealing with live rock, you cannot be certain what might be living on it that could injure you. Take precautions.
Let me give one personal example. Several years ago I was collecting stomatopods off the southern tip of Baja. I was following what was then for me a standard technique. I would snorkel out off shore, free dive and pick up a likely rock or two, swim them back to shore and take apart the rubble collecting the stomatopods and octopus living in it. On the day in question, I was working in 2 m of water, 30 m off shore. I remember diving for a piece of live rock about the size of a basketball. I was wearing gloves but not a wet suit. I vaguely remember that there was a pale greenish grey encrusting growth on the rock - possibly a sponge - but that is all I remember until I woke up in a car being rushed to hospital. I had a large, inflamed patch on my chest and eventually lost some skin from that area. Apparently I had held the rock against my chest as I swam toward shore, but passed out almost immediately. Lucky for me, my dive buddy was on shore watching. She swam out and pulled me to shore before I took in too much seawater. We never figured out what was on the rock and I now always wear at least a stinger suit or neoprene when collecting LR. I am also a great believer in the buddy system.
Roy