remember that "stray voltage" measured in the way that you're describing has little to do with danger to your aquarium's inhabitants.
Specifically, if there's a potential between your aquarium's water and a particular grounded outlet, that doesn't necessarily mean there's current flowing through the water. Think of it this way: You scrape your sock feet over the carpet in the winter. After doing so, you might have a potential of a few thousand volts relative to ground. But you don't feel it until you touch a grounded metal appliance (or someone else!) and get a shock.
All current flowing through a conductor can induce an electric potential in a nearby conductor (in this case, your aquarium water). This is a function of magnetic field strength induced by the current flowing in the primary device - the voltage potential measured in the secondary device/conductor will vary with the square of the distance to, and the current flowing in, the primary device.
Similarly, if you have multiple circuits feeding your aquarium's devices (not just multiple outlets), you can easily be measuring the difference in potential between those different circuit's grounds. This is called a "ground loop" and doesn't necessarily mean that there's something wrong with your house electrical system, because electrical devices in your house can induce a (small) voltage on different grounding paths back to the circuit box.
If you really want to know if you actually have a problem, you need to measure the current potential, not the voltage. All electrical meters have a way to do this - you usually plug one of the probes into a different socket on the front of the meter, and place the meter in the potential current path. In this case, you can disconnect the aquarium's grounding probe from the house ground, and attach the meter between the probe and the house ground. You should see no more than a few milliamps at the most. If you're getting tenths of an amp or higher, it's time to go fishing for a broken aquarium device (usually a powerhead).