Fish Friend
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Hi all
May I ask for your thoughts on this please, because I am a very sad noob right now.
I might have a really bad nano-setup, but I have not made any plans without checking that other hobby aquarists have had success with it first.
I thought I was starting fishkeeping, but instead I have become a serial killer of fishes. In the start I made some mistakes that was simply nooby and exclusively happened because I forgot parts of what I had already read.... and my two fishes died.
I bought two new ones from the LFS and left them in his tanks, as mine was still showing a slight ammonia spike from the dead fishes decomposing over night and my emergency/hospital tank is refusing to cycle. So far so good. When I later came to collect my fishes, a bt-anemone had been put into their tank. It was inside the powerhead, clearly completely torn to shreds and long since starting to decay. In the tank nxt to theirs, another anemone had been lifelessly stuck in a powerhead the entire time I left the fishes there (a week or so).
In general this fishseller leaves carcases and huge feeding-chunks of invertebrets, all over his tanks. A skeleton of a dead fish can be seen stuck in the overflow somewhere and there is almost always a yellow tang (corpes of tang) stuck to a specific powerhead in his main coral/frag display where they swim around a corner and get caught...
So, I collect my two clownfishes.
They weren't looking as great as when I had picked them earlier. A little faded in colour, a little tattered, one had slight ich when I bought it, it had become worse as well ofc.
I took them home, drip acclimatised them, put them in the tank, they would not feed, but seemed fine and in the morning they where both dead.
I strongly "feel" that the LFS's dead anemones had something to do with it. I have read that if I take a fish from water with high ammonia and high lvl of nitrates (his water has well over 50, but I have no test that can measure that much), and I put it into water without these toxins, that also produce stress. That all changes should be done slow if possible.
So I ignored it, after testing and retesting my tank and I found nothing that could actually explain the death of my fishes. (I have no test for dissolved oxygen, otherwise use red sea liqiud testkits with backup results from Tetra-tests and JBL for mg/CA, and the fishseller confirm my readings).
I just thought, that since it would do nothing to help the fishes, let it go, and could not imagine myself actually saying a bad word to the man. For whatever reason, the seller starts to indicate that "something must be wrong" with my tank.
Well, perhaps, perhaps not. It could be a different tank, but this one is mine:
The tank is a 60l w. back-filter, no skimmer, no sump, overpowered light rigged for adding an anemone later on and all my parameters are in check (at the time the fishes died they were in check. Right now nothing is in the tank so the pH has risen with 0,2 and I am using the chance to check stability at lower levels of alk, as I have had it at 12ppm so far).
My only plan for this aqua is two clownfishes, a watchman goby for company and an anemone later on. In the meantime I am clearing up my basement to make plans for a bigger community tank of sorts, no plans of corals, besides perhaps some Pachyclavularia to cover up the rocks.
I am completely dependant of this LFS, my country is small, and I have to be able to work with this man. I just do not know how I can navigate through what he tells me and killing fishes honestly makes me feel very bad.
I need to make sure that nothing is wrong with my tank, not just be convinced that it is a deathtrap so I pay the seller (he knows I'm planning on a much bigger aqua) and right now I don't know.
I just need help to focus on the problem and the fishseller speaks to my feelings, not the facts. I don't like when people speak to my feelings, especially when I have just killed something, because that obviously kicks many feelings.
I am so sorry for being so long and panicked, and thank you in advance for your time
May I ask for your thoughts on this please, because I am a very sad noob right now.
I might have a really bad nano-setup, but I have not made any plans without checking that other hobby aquarists have had success with it first.
I thought I was starting fishkeeping, but instead I have become a serial killer of fishes. In the start I made some mistakes that was simply nooby and exclusively happened because I forgot parts of what I had already read.... and my two fishes died.
I bought two new ones from the LFS and left them in his tanks, as mine was still showing a slight ammonia spike from the dead fishes decomposing over night and my emergency/hospital tank is refusing to cycle. So far so good. When I later came to collect my fishes, a bt-anemone had been put into their tank. It was inside the powerhead, clearly completely torn to shreds and long since starting to decay. In the tank nxt to theirs, another anemone had been lifelessly stuck in a powerhead the entire time I left the fishes there (a week or so).
In general this fishseller leaves carcases and huge feeding-chunks of invertebrets, all over his tanks. A skeleton of a dead fish can be seen stuck in the overflow somewhere and there is almost always a yellow tang (corpes of tang) stuck to a specific powerhead in his main coral/frag display where they swim around a corner and get caught...
So, I collect my two clownfishes.
They weren't looking as great as when I had picked them earlier. A little faded in colour, a little tattered, one had slight ich when I bought it, it had become worse as well ofc.
I took them home, drip acclimatised them, put them in the tank, they would not feed, but seemed fine and in the morning they where both dead.
I strongly "feel" that the LFS's dead anemones had something to do with it. I have read that if I take a fish from water with high ammonia and high lvl of nitrates (his water has well over 50, but I have no test that can measure that much), and I put it into water without these toxins, that also produce stress. That all changes should be done slow if possible.
So I ignored it, after testing and retesting my tank and I found nothing that could actually explain the death of my fishes. (I have no test for dissolved oxygen, otherwise use red sea liqiud testkits with backup results from Tetra-tests and JBL for mg/CA, and the fishseller confirm my readings).
I just thought, that since it would do nothing to help the fishes, let it go, and could not imagine myself actually saying a bad word to the man. For whatever reason, the seller starts to indicate that "something must be wrong" with my tank.
Well, perhaps, perhaps not. It could be a different tank, but this one is mine:
The tank is a 60l w. back-filter, no skimmer, no sump, overpowered light rigged for adding an anemone later on and all my parameters are in check (at the time the fishes died they were in check. Right now nothing is in the tank so the pH has risen with 0,2 and I am using the chance to check stability at lower levels of alk, as I have had it at 12ppm so far).
My only plan for this aqua is two clownfishes, a watchman goby for company and an anemone later on. In the meantime I am clearing up my basement to make plans for a bigger community tank of sorts, no plans of corals, besides perhaps some Pachyclavularia to cover up the rocks.
I am completely dependant of this LFS, my country is small, and I have to be able to work with this man. I just do not know how I can navigate through what he tells me and killing fishes honestly makes me feel very bad.
I need to make sure that nothing is wrong with my tank, not just be convinced that it is a deathtrap so I pay the seller (he knows I'm planning on a much bigger aqua) and right now I don't know.
I just need help to focus on the problem and the fishseller speaks to my feelings, not the facts. I don't like when people speak to my feelings, especially when I have just killed something, because that obviously kicks many feelings.
I am so sorry for being so long and panicked, and thank you in advance for your time
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