Well, we're all tellin ya all kinds of stuff to do...but not really saying why. If I say something you already know it's not to offend ya, just tryin to break down this whole schlemiel for ya.
nutrients...it's about how to not get alot of em into your system...and about getting what ya have out.
Firstly...if you don't have an RODI filter (it turns your source water into something like distilled water...very very pure) than you must do whatever it takes...sell your cat...your guitar...do special chores for your wife...whatever...to get one NOW

See, all source water...city...county, whatever actually has nitrates (among other things) in it....so the top off water you put in your tank every day has nutrients in it...I mean, I don't care if you have to go give plasma or something to get the cash (just don't do anything immoral/illegal) to get that RODI...it will change your tank forever!
...ehhem...ok. Moving on.
Secondly...a person mentioned get a refugium earlier...just in case you don't know what it is (not trying to insult)....it's simply a place where you can grow a good type of algae (like chaetomorpha) that sucks up the nutrients at a quick rate. You can also put a deep sand bed in it...which creates a special place where good bacteria (which doesn't really grow anywhere in your display tank much) that will suck it up as well. we're talking anywhere between 4-6 inches of a fine/sugar sized sand. See that kind of bacteria needs little to no oxygen to thrive...so it lives only in the deep sand and deep parts of rock.
THirdly...the people are telling you to change your water because that gets the nitrate filled water out and good, nitrate free water in...but only makes a huge difference if you have an RODI.
Yeah, and there definitely is a place for wet/dry filters...um...well...scratch that...at least for this kind of aquaria...but keep that thing!!! Because you can turn it into a sump without wet/dry or into a refugium!
Fourth...fifthly...eh, whatever. Get as good as a skimmer you can (unlike me...that's what I really need, is a good skimmer)...because it directly removes organic waste...and reduces therefore the amount of (nitrifying) that your tank's bacteria has to do...so basically...since the end result of the bacterial action is nitrates...then having an awesome skimmer that removes the need for so much bacterial action is a very very good thing.