well to be safe (and in my newbness) i fresh water dripped the acro, but in hind site it is a millipora (sp?) and took the larger crab out as there was significant damage to the coral. The other smaller crabs seem "safe", they are about 5 mm leg to leg.
Given my small tank I am giving SPS (acropora/milipora) a try as a learning experience. I want to see how they do.
On a positive note the "sickly" acro I purchased is showing more polyp extension every day. It's blue/purple with green circles around the polyp. he also has has a very small crab hanging out on him.
the big guy was hairy and I followed RC advice - get him out.