Isis,
Many species of gonodactylid living at depth greater than 30 feet are red or salmon color. Without knowing where it came from, there is no hope of identifying it. Even with a location, without a photo or at least some key information such as meral spot color, shape of telson, eye color and shape, etc. it is unlikely that the animal could be identified.
Next time you see it, try to see if the color is solid or if it has a lot of white or cream spots. Also, if you see the telson, does it end in two blunt spines or four sharp ones?
Anyway, don't lose heart. As a native Hawkeye, I'm living proof that you don't have to grow up around an ocean to learn a few things about stomaotpods.
Roy