"Actually that stand pipe accoplishes the venting also doesn't it? As long as the connection to the cistern is above the water level it should work. No?"
You could have the standpipe drain line also be the vent and the skimmer return IF it was large enough. You dont want it burping. Go for a 3" er, use some DWV wyes and then plumb your standpipe, vent, and skimmer return to them.
Then you want at least a 1" bulkhead (preferrably 1.5") for the circ pump suction. I would have it draw from the bottom of the cistern so you get good mixing. 2 bulkheads

Yes, the standpipe needs to be just above normal sump water level, and skimmer needs to be above the level of the cistern.
You also could have the skimmer return / standpipe flow to a box with floss or filter sock before returning to the cistern. You really dont want crud in that tank.
"Once the water level rises and flows down the stand pipe and the cistern is vented the end result is that the cistern becomes the sump. (i.e. it will drop in level with evaporation)"
Yes, if the tank never calls for cooling, the cistern water will evaporate a bit. You could run a bypass to always trickle a bit of chilled water into the tank, thus always overflowing the standpipe. Then your regular makeup water would serve both.
"I need to think on this more but I kinda think that the solution would be to have a way to shut down the vent and the skimmer leg when the system is feeding cool water into the system."
The 3way shuts down the skimmer (recirc mode) when feeding the tank. You dont really want to shut off the vent.
nonot8946,
"one is if you have a standpipe in the sump, determining how much water you need to replace due to evaporation would be difficult (but a guess would likely suffice). The best option would be to have the top off regulation in the cistern."
See above.
"second is would you really need a "skimmer", why not simply have the 3 way valve feed into a reduced diameter pipe, the end of which is inserted into a pipe of larger diameter. This would provide all the aeration needed, unless you are trying to actually process the water to remove particulates? If you are trying to remove solid wastes, the skimmer should be placed in line with the returns from both the standpipe and the 3-way closed loop, once the solids get to the cistern, I don't think they will move much with the large volume, unless you have a very powerful recirculating pump. (edit) And actually, the skimmer would only need to be on the standpipe, the recirculating loop wouldn't really need to go through the skimmer if my guess is correct."
Correct, but I was thinking that the skimmer would get some of the gunk, which will happen wherever you aerate water. I would put some floss to catch any crud before entering the cistern. Just make sure it can still overflow safely if it gets clogged. You'd rather have a bit of crud in the cistern than a flood.
"A T with 2 adjustable valves would be better than the 3-way full open/close only and would allow you the option of having some control over the rate of cooling, though there are many factors at work here to determine what it should be set at, unless your goal is to completely automate the 3 way valve connected to something monitoring the temperature."
You want this thermostatically controlled. Too many factors effecting temps to do it manually. The rate of cooling is adjusted by an inline ballvalve with the 3way.
Herp,
So is it done yet?
