Hey guys, I usually play in the LPS section, but I think I might be of aid for you here.
I think I understand what is causing your SPS to RTN when your dKH gets low.
Its your ph.
When your alk gets low, it has a reduced effect at stabilizing your ph values.
Normally, the ph value in a reef tank changes from light to dark periods. During the light period the ph values slowly rise slightly. When the lights go out, your ph values slightly lower.
This can bewilder a reefer because you test your water and get a ph reading of 8.3. Perfect. But you tested at 6 or 7 pm and what you dont see is that the ph value at 6 or 7 am is very different.
Alkalinity reduces the amount of fluctuation in ph values from light to dark periods when kept in the range of 9-11 dKH.
Higher values tend to increase the ph of a tank, but otherwise dont pose any real threats to your corals unless brought to very high levels.
What kind of shift are we talking about? Try a half point or more of change in a 24 hour period.
If your dKH gets below 7, expect your ph to shift a minimum of a half point. If that shift could put you below 7.5 ph, your corals are likely to start having serious reactions.
This article might help.
http://reefkeeping.com/issues/2007-05/rhf/index.php