Right, I understand that it may not be a Stichodactyla tapetum, so that is my question, how do I differentiate that species from another. Gary, you are the guy that a lot of people get these things from right? To clarify, it is my impression that these guys are more "reef safe" than others because they stay small, dont move much, dont sting, and arent really bothered by stings of other things. Correct me if I am wrong.