mojo needed, divorce.

[PCKRAJ]

I strongly suggest Retrouvaille - check out the website, www.Retrouvaille.org and read the testimonials. The Program involves a weekend and 6 post sessions. The Rochester community is having a weekend in April. You can call 1-800-470-2230 to reach the local registration couple to give you more info.

This program (actually God through this program) saved our marriage over 25 years ago and we have been involved in the Retrouvaille Buffalo program ever since, in fact we are the Registration couple for the Buffalo area. Our next weekend is in September.

You can also call me directly at (716) 474-9371 if you have any questions about the program.

 

[tmz]

I am sorry to hear it. Both of my sisters went through it .One of my daughter's too. I've been blessed wit ha 44 year marriage to a wonderful woman. It takes a commitment,loyalty and lots of little things day by day and two willing partners.I wish I could be of more help.

 

[twogun21]

Sorry to hear about your troubles. Went through the same thing 15yrs ago with 3 little kids involved between ages ten and two. She was seeing somebody else. She wanted to work it out, but I gave her the option to stop seeing him and cut all ties and she refused because she said they were only friends. I told her it was over and filed for divorce. she ended up marrying him and now is getting divorced 15 yrs later.

I don't have any hard feelings towards her at all. We are friends and I do anything I can to help her out if she needs it. She's still the mother of my kids. In the end it made me a better person and a Father today then if I had stayed with her.

It's the unkown that is the scary part. I would never tell you or anyone else what to do, but if it doesn't work out, no matter what always see your children. Believe me, when your kids get older they'll figure out what went on. Never bad mouth her to your children either no matter how ****ed you might get.

It's a heck of an emotional roller coaster ride and I really do hope the relationship works out. No matter what your going to need somebody impartial to talk too. And remember your not alone.

 

[block head]

Thanks for the support, we had a amazing weekend. Communication was outstanding , and we were able to enjoy so many of the things that were right with the marriage. I spent decades trying to make others happy without regret. I look forward to moving in a positive direction. I have neglected my needs , and pray the next weeks ,months, years bring happiness for us both. The marriage may be too far gone to save. We both seem eager to continue our friendship. I can accept whatever course it takes. I'm embracing change and the challenges that will surely ensue. Beefing up my spirituality is high on the list .