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If you do the drive all at once, you’re looking at a 12 hour+ drive.
Here’s what I would do:
Rent a UHaul work van or similar (not the non temp regulated box trucks)
Buy a couple 150 gallon tubs/stocktanks for livestock and rock and a couple power inverters for heaters and powerheads and then use trash cans for anything left over (not sure how much space you’ll have)
Load into the U-Haul and start the drive.
Ideally it should be done in one day, but I don’t know where you’re located so if weather permits, you could probably split it over two days. I’m just not aware of a heater that would be able to compete with the cold of a vehicle overnight.
This is of course if you have multiple drivers as the tank would likely be moved in a separate U-Haul/moving vehicle.
Once at the new location, everything could probably stay in the stock tanks until the tank is set up and ready
Or
Could always hire a fish company that does cross country moves. I’ve heard Aquatic Technology in Northern Ohio moves tanks like that but not sure what limits they have or if you may have a closer option.
Or
Could split up the move. Pack everything up in coolers, tank on a pallet, etc. and book a spot on a cargo plane (similar to what suppliers do with live rock from the gulf). Fly out on a separate plane and meet the cargo plane upon arrival and U-Haul it to the new location. Then fly back and complete the rest of the move.
I’m just putting some thoughts out there