I would keep trying to feed the bleached anemone. Don't force it of course, but food will help it survive until the zooxanthellae come back. Hope it starts taking food soon.
BTW, your new anemone makes me want a LTA. Beautiful. I got my BTA from Reef Hot Spot and will NEVER buy from them again. It was a good size, but definitely bleached. They have terrible customer support IMHO. I got it up to full health, but still...
Glad to hear about a good place to get anemones. Thanks for the tip.