it takes a big person to be sure the animal will live and let his own wants take the back burner.
give it a few months for a bta. get all your test kits, get your water stable, get yourself to understand what is stable and how to keep it that way, get good at your water changes and top off.. it took me LONGER than 6 months to understand alkalinity.
someone finally said to me.. yo, its like a perfect triangle, your calcium effects your alk, your alk effects your ph, when they are all perfect you have your triangle, but if 1 thing go's out of wack, they all do.