It is ticked off about something.
How long was it between the blue one being pulled and this one going into the tank? Worried that whatever "infection" that the blue one had could have seen being lingering. I have no idea if that is even possible, but you never know.
The current tank is an upgrade 5 months ago. Everything transferred over fine including acros, rbta, cocoworms, etc. Half the rock I used was new reefsaver's baserock and the other half was my old liverock. I wanted to redo the scrap.
Not trying to get you down or anything but this is not an ideal situation..
I am not one to set a limit on tank maturity for having an anemone. I more just go by the look of the tank, when there is a good population of different types of algae and bacteria it is usually all set.
Your tank still looks like there is a lot of colonization that is still occurring.
How is the red haddoni doing?