As for the 1262... you can just buy one for $130 at most places. There is no getting around that. Then, the needlewheel from ER is $100, and the volute is another $48... so in the end, its just as cost effective to get the ER pump for $250. Then again, its not like their venturi is even close to 'ideal'. I was able to make a better venturi than what they sent me with a 3/4" MPT-1"slip adapter, 1"slip-3/4" slip bushing, the 3/4" PVC and 1/2" PVC... much like the Sicce PSK venturis I put together. The impeller is the hard part to get around. The stock impeller is $80 from eheim parts, so its a matter of sacrificing the one that the eheim comes with, and hoping you can bond a disk on to it strong enough... or, do what I did and just buy another ER pinwheel for $100, cut the pins off, drill the disk, and add your own mesh. Of course, your skimmer might be well enough with just the needlewheel since that can easily take 1000lph and then some for air mixing. So I suppose the pump and needlewheel are all you really need. I suppose you dont even need the venturi either since you are force feeding. Still... its a $130 pump, and then a needlewheel for $100, or sacrificing the stock impeller. In my case, I didnt want to give up the stock impeller... so I spent the money.
Anyways, you might also consider the Aquabee or Sicce pumps. The Quiet One 3000 is the same pump in almost every way to the Sicce PSK 2500... 40 watts, same impeller design, same volute cover, same impeller well diameter and depth... except it has a 1" MPT outlet, and the Sicce has a 3/4" FPT. Its an easy pump to get for $40-50. Its not as quiet as an eheim I suppose, but its alright... way better than the OR.
Otherwise, you may also consider the Aquabee 2000/1, which might actually be a good match for the skimmer with force feeding. A stock 2000/1 does 500lph, and threadwheel versions can do up to 720lph. So a force fed threadwheel... you should get that 900-1000lph mark pretty easily. And its a $110 pump through DAS (orca or petorama). I havent meshed an Aquabee 2000/1 myself though yet, so I dont know.