Fini,
Ideally, all octopus should be kept in an aquarium of immense size - say the ocean. The problem here is considering all octopuses as the same. Biomass, life stiyle, diet and activity all should be considered. While most species should be in a system as large and stable as possible, there are pygmies that do quite well in small systems. These are generally small, cavitiy or crevice oriented species such as O. bocki, O. mercatoris, O. wolfi. etc. They rarely leave their homes, so the psychological factor is minimal, they eat about .5 grams of food a day and they typically do not weigh more than 5-20 grams. A well run in 10 gal. system maintained properly and at a stable temperature is more than adequate for such an animal. In fact, our research tanks are smaller and we have no problem keeping a variety of pygmy species or juvenile individuals of larger species. In my experience, it is far more important that the aquarium be well established and stable than what size it is. Obviously I would not stuff a 2 kg O. cyanea into a 10 gal tank, but a pygmy into a stable 10 gal, not to worry.
Roy