Spawning activity is so much fun to watch! It did look like one was trying to push her into his lair at one point.
Having one female to three males goes against the conventional wisdom of harems, but it seems to work fine in your tank. Not that all fish are harem spawners. Do you know of their social structure in the wild? Despite some mild aggression, no one is cowering in the corner, waiting for death, which happens a lot with other fish. Maybe the males' squabbling prevents the female from getting too much attention. There are many fish we are warned to not keep more than one male of, because they will fight to the death. Your males seem to tolerate each other pretty well!
Could this be the normal ratio for them? Maybe, in the murky world of oyster reefs, females are hard to find, so the males have to be more 'sensitive'. Whatever's going on seems to work well, and your fish are happy enough to spawn. And, it makes for fun vids!
Having one female to three males goes against the conventional wisdom of harems, but it seems to work fine in your tank. Not that all fish are harem spawners. Do you know of their social structure in the wild? Despite some mild aggression, no one is cowering in the corner, waiting for death, which happens a lot with other fish. Maybe the males' squabbling prevents the female from getting too much attention. There are many fish we are warned to not keep more than one male of, because they will fight to the death. Your males seem to tolerate each other pretty well!
Could this be the normal ratio for them? Maybe, in the murky world of oyster reefs, females are hard to find, so the males have to be more 'sensitive'. Whatever's going on seems to work well, and your fish are happy enough to spawn. And, it makes for fun vids!