The (Galaxy Clarkii) Clowns were paired when I purchased them. I had them in the tank together for about a month before adding a RBTA. It took a day or two for it to start hosting the male and about a day later it started hosting the female as well. Right after that she started going after the male and now doesn't want his little behind anywhere near her or the anemone. His fins look fine so I dont think she is nipping at him and I've even seen him go back at her a couple of times. She is growing faster than he is, so there is a little bit of a size difference between them. I've read that this is semi normal and in time she may or may not let him back in with her. If at this point I were to get another anemone would she take that one over too since she is bigger and seems more aggressive than he is? My current RBTA isn't small and there is more than enough room for fatty and her beaten mate so I have a feeling if I picked up another BTA she would take over that bed too. Any helpful thoughts or experiences are appreciated.