paired for yrs now female ripping male apart bangiis

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Hi I have a problem and dont know why its happening. Ive had my pair of bangii cardinals for yrs since they were babies . They have had babies together five times and have always been unseperateable until a few days ago the female has been ripping the male apart and today the male has half of its back fin and the top two r almost gone . I have no idea why this is going on out of nowhere? I cant get the male out to put in another tank cuz they r in a fully stocked reef that has mostly sps and rainbow btas but besides possibley breaking all the sps tearing it apart to get him out I also have some delicate fish in there as well that can b harmed or over stressed from the task of removel of the cardinal . Has anyone ever had this happen where they stop the loving and start the hating? I know it happens in life as im in the middle of a divorce where life was great and one day my wife never came home and is living with her mom now relationships always have there fights and problems mine came to a end cuz my wife came into drugs and the wrong new girlfriends and that was that but I know my female cardinal isnt doing meth so why is she turning out of the blue on the male ? I cant figure it out whenever the male comes outta hiding shes on him like crazy beating him to death . My pair of clowns and tang r kinda the peace police and break it up quickly but I dont know what to do to bring back the love ? Anything will help that u can suggest or tell ke . Thanks in advance
 
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