Hi,
Haha, welcome to the wonderful world of lighting! If you are going with clams, get as much MH light as you can fit over the tank, you can't have enough!
For a 55, I would probably go with a dual 250HQI setup. There are a couple of really nice setups that come with actinics...but they are pricey ( aquaspace ). The actinic would really only serve as dusk/dawn as the MH will drown it out for sure.
HTH