I JUST BOUGHT 3-250W ICECAP ELECTRONIC BALLASTS and 3 XM 15K bulbs but no reflector. i've seen the reflector online between 35-50 bucks but none of them have lamp cords. how do i connect the ballast to the reflector without a lamp cord. i need one with a male receptacle but i seem to be having a very hard time finding them online. can anyone help me?