Actually, DO NOT use schedule 80!!! The difference is that sch80 is thicker walled (same o.d., smaller i.d.). Therefore you will get less flow using the sch80 than you will if you use the more common (and less expensive) sch40. In fact, if you can find it, sch20 (it's not called sch20 but it's real name escapes me) is more than adequate for our low pressure systems. And yes, that means even if you are using a pressure rated pump.
If you want it to be pretty grey, (or any other color) spray paint works well. All my visible plumbing is black - less visible at the back of the tank.
jm.02