**POLL** How many "lifetime" tanks?

**POLL** How many "lifetime" tanks?

  • ONE

    Votes: 9 11.4%
  • TWO (due to learning or mistakes)

    Votes: 12 15.2%
  • AS MANY AS HE CAN CONVINCE ME TO BUY HIM

    Votes: 23 29.1%
  • UNLIMITED

    Votes: 35 44.3%

  • Total voters
    79
  • Poll closed .

LawGirl

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I must premise the poll with the following information, exactly 2 years ago the statement from the person wanting another tank was "this is my dream tank, it will be the only one I need or want for at least 10 years. So he got his "lifetime dream tank" and now wants the "real lifetime dream tank"

Please be serious, my sanity rests on this one!! Yes, I am his wife.
 
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LawGirl,
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I chose unlimited because since technology and new ways of setting up and maintaining aquariums is always changing, it's hard not to upgrade or improve your tank. We're always coming up with new ideas as well.

Rock Anemone:D
 
I think the only problem is that he calls them "lifetime dream tanks". As long as he rephrases that, you can't hold it against him for wanting to upgrade. He should call them "this will make me happy for a while tanks". :D Seriously though, I think once you get to a certain size, the maintenance will get to a point where he'll stop and say "this is big enough". Maybe.
 
I dunno, way more than 5 for me, I bet. I still got atleast 50 years left to live... gonna be lots of new equipment in that time, I bet.

Right now, I'm building my "dream tank" for the next 6-8 years (till I'm out of college).
 
I have my dream tank all layed out in my mind, but it won't happen until we move and I have enough money. Size is unsure of, but probably around 300 gallons. I have the entire design planned, very beautiful indeed. However, it does keep changing, that is with improvements.

Rock Anemone:D
 
Yes I think the guy at least deserves a 2nd "dream Tank." When I first started keeping a reef I did not have a clue as to what kind of tank to purchase. I would put my foot down with this one and make sure he gets what he wants this time and does a lot of homework.

;)
 
Wow, Jacob30, you're in Virginia too

Wow, Jacob30, you're in Virginia too

If I were you, I would be doing a lot more homework than you suggest you are doing as we speak. I think I am correct in asking if the general population agrees if a man who supposedly did his homework the first time, deserves another tank, after only two years, and after promising that it would be a ten year tank.

I think my husband should use the remaining 8 years to further his education on reef care, maintenance, and general upkeep prior to receiving his second first lifetime tank. I think the whole problem started when we purchased a house and he was given a "tank room" in which to keep his 110 lifetime tank, but then he found the "big man's tank aquarium thread" on reef central and became a "built-in the wall huge tank owner wannabe".

Oh, and Jacob30, if I were you, I would offer your wonderful wife some type of gratis, that's a big word for diamonds.

And one more thing Jacob30, I am your wife and you know it, so quit using this message board to vote for yourself and make people feel sorry for you. I love you a lot, your wife LawGirl.
 
Re: Wow, Jacob30, you're in Virginia too

Re: Wow, Jacob30, you're in Virginia too

<a href=showthread.php?s=&postid=6561792#post6561792 target=_blank>Originally posted</a> by LawGirl
...Oh, and Jacob30, if I were you, I would offer your wonderful wife some type of gratis, that's a big word for diamonds...

Exactly what my wife got every time I wanted to start a tank:)

Do wives wait 10 years to upgrade their diamonds, or purses, or shoes, or dresses?
 
My wife and I am in the process of purchacing our first house and she is going in this full well knowning that I have three criteria for the house. 3 plus car garage, full working kitchen, and a big finished basement for a tank in the 1000g area. She knows this. Tries to argue but she knows that she enjoys it just as much as I do. When she saw Energy's tank in person, I knew on the ride home that I will have a tank of that magnatude. Thanks Energy! Anyways... If the bank account can support a new tank, dont hold off the inevidable, Lawgirl you might come home to a 300g argument. Why dont you guys work together agree on a size and enjoy the hobby as a couple. My wife and I have found a way to enjoy it together, I work on the tank and go to work, while she stays at home and enjoys it!
 
I answered unlimited, but would have answered about 4 or 5 had that been an option. I really want to set up a large Reef and a large FOWLR tank. There are a number of fish I would like to be able to display that arenââ"šÂ¬Ã¢"žÂ¢t compatible with a reef. The other 2 or three tanks really arenââ"šÂ¬Ã¢"žÂ¢t "dream tanks" just things like grow-out, quarantine, and a test tank to see how a fish does in a reef situation.
 
My current "lifetime tank" is a 180 that not only takes up half the family room but half the garage as well. I would like a larger tank but I have to figure out how to buy a larger house first.

My "Dream Tank" is a 12 foot long, 3 foot deep, 3 foot tall in-wall reef. I'm guessing it would run about 810 gallons.
 
Yes, He will get his tank, and he knows it

Yes, He will get his tank, and he knows it

I told him I was going to post a poll to see if everyone thought he should have "another" dream tank. When we bought the house about 3 days ago, not moving in officially till early summer, I knew since his tank room backed up to the garage that he/we would have a nice built-in tank. He is saying 220 or 250, hhhmmm I say it may as well be in the 300 range because it has to last the rest of the 8 years, that's when he retires from his Pilot job in the Navy. We have a huge house now and no kids (hey, smart) so we have lots of rooms to make really nice.

Yes, he is a good husband, and yes, I do get him some good things for his aquarium. Case in point, he had to go do some humanitarian work this summer in Lousiana, flying, rescue, supply delivery, so he came home to his dream Deltec skimmer as a "thanks for what you do".

So I do take care of him and his addiction!!. I just like to give him a hard time. He works hard and his tank is very beautiful and he has done a tremendous amount of learning during the last 5+ years I have watched his aquarium go from a 28 hex with two fish (one ate the other one in a week) and lots of fake rock supplies to a gorgeous 110 flat back hex reef tank with way too much to list.

And the good part is that I am the farthest thing from a shopper and he knows it, so I do get rewarded with some nice gifts too. I told him I would be the document thread maker of his project, the good the bad and the ugly!! He agreed, so you can all look forward to a great, hopefully entertaining and in the end a beautiful tank thread built into his tank room wall. I will have to post a pic of what it looks like now, the lady had it as a dining room from the 50's or 60's not sure cause we were not born yet.

Ideas are welcome, I have been reading up on those who do the built in tanks and have some good ideas. He is just now in the begging/planning/wishing phase, and occasionally accidentally drops plans on my side of the bed. So I say a good 400 tank ought to blow him away, that's about 90 wide, 24 high (cleaning purpose) and hhhmm about 48 deep?? I went to law school, attorney's don't do math. So any caveats would be welcome. Dont want to have to do this again, or replace a wall, or floor, etc. We are looking at Ocean Image Aquariums, any thoughts??

Thanks for voting everyone, it was fun and a good ribbing for the hubby. We will start the construction thread as soon as the plans are approved by me. ha ha.
 
Well, basically this is how I work it out with my wife. I'm allowed one tank per house. So we pre negotiate my tank "area" (my wife is a lawyer too). Once the limits are established that's it. If I wanna upgrade the tank size, I gotta get a new house. You can imagine that doesn't happen real often. I do kinda get unlimited tinkering freedom however (as long as I do not violate geographic boundaries). I feel that I can live with my current setup for a long time (see website)
 
Nice Tank, and nice xrays too

Nice Tank, and nice xrays too

I do enjoy the look of the in-wall tank, nice and clean looking in the room. The garage can then be the catch all room. Like the xrays too, I'll have to send you my broken neck x-ray. All I did was turn my head and my neck broke, the fun part was after the doc not believing me and the tech rolling me all over the xray table while I screamed obscenities, they said they found nothing and sent me home with 10 valium, 5 mg. And I did not sue. See we are not all money grubbing bottom feeders.

See, it's a good idea to negotiate with the wife, you guys always end up coming out ahead in the end I think. But seriously, your tank is awesome and I like the movie of the fish. Nice work on the website, noticed the CV. I went to undergrad and grad school out in CA, but ah fall in love with a Pilot and I ended up in Italy for 3 years and then here in Virginia. I miss CA. I am sure you have a lot more of a choice when it comes to your LFS and suppliers out there, here we have one okay one, but high priced, and one really borderline one run by teens, okay price but you have to know how to spot the ones that will make it through the ride home! Thanks for the info.
 
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