You can not convince me that starving my corals is good for them.
I'm not really sure you understand Ecology and Biology...
Sure, we should emulate the ocean, to an extent, in our tanks. However, on coral reefs in the wild, what they are getting is food with a low phosphate environment. They are getting their daily intake of phosphate through the ingestion of food. In our systems, we want to decrease the amount of waste, but also have a way to increase the amount of food. The only way to do that naturally is to increase biodiversity and those mouths, once again. The more mouths to feed, the more food you can feed your tank. The more ways you have of exporting decomposed nitrate and phosphate - IE skimmer or even by macroalgae, the better.
I don't see two separate spectrums of the hobby. I see skimmers and fuges working together to accomplish two separate goals. Skimmers simply remove FOOD from the water before a coral has a chance to consume it so that it doesn't turn in to nitrate and phosphate. Algae grows by the decomposition and waste products of all those mouths that we want to feed.
No one should starve their corals, but no one should overfeed their tanks either. You really do have to find that happy balance. We can not replicate mother nature in our closed system aquariums - you are trying to reach a goal that no one can attain, so your understanding of the natural biota of the ocean may be correct, but your theories and explanations of the hobby are wrong. As another member said, put the book down and actually pay attention to your tank.
Lets say this... you start a system that is bare bottom, with dead, bleached, acid bathed base rock and artificial sea water. You replicate the oceans currents, and your give your tank enough light to sustain a variety of corals. Soft corals, LPS corals, NPS corals and SPS corals. Now, lets say you don't have any fish in this system at all, and you do not feed your tank anything at all. No zooplankton, no phytoplankton... but you keep doing water changes with purified NSW, which contains no free floating organisms and a phosphate level of 0.009 or lower, with the same corrosponding nitrate level. According to you, soft corals, NPS corals, and LPS corals will probably die. SPS corals will thrive because all they need is light and a miniscule amount of phosphate. Is this what you are saying? Because, if it is,... I don't want that kind of system. I want a system that will be able to cultivate and grow all different varieties of corals, and be able to sustain genetic biodiversity through time. I don't want some freakish experiment in my livingroom, I want a thriving ecosystem.
By the way, I see in your signature that your tank info is "a sad story." .... now I don't really have to wonder why about that one, do I?