You want quiet, you need a pump that is not turning so fast, I have been using LG pumps for many years, and they are just plain loud. I have a 4mdqx-sc impeller housing, on a TE motor, and it is louder than my darts. (virtually silent)-- 1650 rpm compared to ~3000 rpm. The noise is the cooling fan. You can quiet the LG down, by removing the cooling fan, but you will need to provide auxiliary fans for cooling the motor. (often a lot quieter than a fan spinning at ~3000 rpm.)
Another thing to look at, is you have the intake to your LG pump restricted. (The intake plumbing is too small) and the pump is probably cavitating. That creates some noise as well. The intake plumbing needs to be the same size or larger than the intake volute. Cavitation will destroy the pump in not a very long time.
Personally, I'd give an Iwaki pump, or maybe a Gen-X pump some serious consideration, but fix that intake plumbing. I have a Dart (~3000 gph @ 4') running on a 120, though it is dialed back a bit. Can't hear it. Another Dart is running the 240, wide open. Can't hear it either. (Sump returns both)
Changing out a pump can be a challenge, if plumbing challenged

, and if you are not able to increase the pump intake plumbing size, you may be left with a submersible pump as the most viable option, but even that will need to have some plumbing modifications done.
Don't let the detractors talk you out of using an external pump. The flow you have is just fine. An external pump is just one less piece of electrical equipment in the water,
Regards,
Jim