I hope someone with extensive professional water treatment experience can chime in for you. However, I would not re-use the waste water. What would be better I think would be to improve the total volume of water wasted. If I read you right, you DON'T WANT to waste so much water. What I would do is 2 things:
1. Get a booster pump for your unit. By increasing the incoming pressure to 90-95 PSI you make your membrane much more efficient. It also increases dramatically your total output, especially in the cold winter months. I went from 60 gpd with a 100 GPD membrane pre-booster pump to about 165 GPD after getting the pump.
2. Get an adjustable flow restrictor with a flush kit. You can adjust the ratio to get a 1:3 product to waste ratio. It will still make your membrane last 16-18 months or more depending on your water usage and significantly decreases the waste. Lower ratios like 1:2 or even 1:1 will adversely decrease the life of your membrane.
Hope that helps.