cgk, I don't have a clue where you would find oyster shell, but like Ed said, you can use crushed aragonite/crushed coral, and I thought I would pipe in because we live in the same city. Have you tried Tropical Fish Lagoon? Also if you are willing to go further, there is a place about 1/2 an hour around the beltway called Roozen's Nursery in Allentown, MD. They are both a large nursery and a SW livestock supplier, so they might know what you are talking about; also they have a lot of good stuff, might interest you to take a look.