Yeah, this is a big part of reefkeeping, IMO. I have a nice little 55 reef and can study the little things for hours. I've tried to keep bigger reefs a couple of times; but just don't have the patience. There is a lot that goes on in a well-stocked 55 reef tank, though. My oldest daughter calls my big tanks, all are built in, "Living Murals"; that's the way I see them too, much of the time. Sometimes I see the entire tank as one big picture, but I can focus in on individual fish too.
A very interesting & thought provoking topic!
i personally love some of the larger angels but only in juv form
eg queen and emperor due to colouration but think they are ugly in adult form
I think some people (not necessarily on RC) get a big fish in a small tank because 1) they simply don't know any better; 2) mean to upgrade in the future; 3) want to "fill up" the tank; 4) they saw it on "Finding Nemo"; or 5) that fish would really look good in their tank. IME, I was/am guilty of more than one of these reasons, but did finally upgrade.
I guess I'm old school but I dont like to see too many fish in a tank... to busy for me.
IMO the larger fish seem to have a better personality ie they and are more interactive with their keepers. Vlamingi's often seem to work their way into the hearts of their owners. If you decide to take the one from your freind you might find the big grey submarine becoming your favorite fish.
+1
My Vlamingii was like a pet dog. He would always be right there looking right at you when you get in his eyeshot of the tank. He would let me pick him right up out of the water without even a wiggle. He was my fav fish for personality.
Yes, too busy does not appeal to me either. Very unnatural.
go big or go home