Found your thread a little late. Here's my two cents: Your lightling is fine, you do not need more or less. Remember to change PC bulbs between every eight to twelve months. I agree with the person who wrote that mushrooms can be tempermental with respect to light needs. I have some that prefer low light condidtions and some that do better with more light (discosoma vs rhodactis vs ricordia). I really do not think you need to worry about feeding your softies. The species you list get most of their nutirents from the water and energy from zooxanthelea, as you have read. I think feeding your tank would contribute to water quality issues more than help your corals.
Also, what are you expectations for growth? Sarcophyton, in my experience, is not particularly fast growing. Mushrooms vary. Nepthea should be the fastest of what you listed. Are you sure you want fast growth rates? If your corals are otherwise healthy, I wouldn't worry about it. If I could, there are a couple of corals I would slow down: less maintenance.
My best guess is alkalinity issues. I found this cited in my readings more that parameter issues when I was researching similar issues. Are you up to 8dKH?
Let us know what happens. Best of luck.