At 25V on the tank water, you should be concerned. With that much stray voltage in the water column, you would have been shocked the first time that you went barefoot. I can feel less than 1V when I am barefooted.
From what you said, you have more than one problem. You may have 25V of stray electricity on your house neutral or ground leads. Get an electrician to check for leaks to ground. Your return pump may leak to ground. I would strongly consider replacing it.
For your safety, I recommend a ground fault circuit interrupter on all of your tank electrical supplies. Also for your safety, I recommend a titanium grounding probe from your tank to a ground.