This should help (from user beananimal)
"attempting to measure voltage in your aquarium is somewhat meaningless. What we are concerned with is current flow. Measuring a floating voltage with a handheld meter is not going to give you an accurate view of the situation and the reading will depend on numerous factors, but mostly the impedance of the meter and that of the source voltage. Measuring current however, is straight forward and will give a better picture of what is going on in the system.
That said, even the current measurements can be suspect, as the meter impedance has to compete with other ground paths (pumps shafts for example) in the tank. Remember, electricity does not take the path of least resistance, it takes all paths in proportion to their resistance.
Moving forward:
Your assessment of ground probes is fairly decent with regard to the CONS associated with them but your advice with regard to electrical service grounding has some faults (no pun) in it.
While I am not going to advise against code, I will say that numerous studies have shown that most ground rods are as good as useless at providing a true earthed connection. The connection to the cold water pipe is MUCH better, but in many cases is also as good as useless. The only ground reference that we can really count on to clear a fault is the center tap on the pole that we bond our ECG to! I still drive my two ground rods and bond to the cold water inlet, as it can't hurt to try to earth the connection....
Testing for ZERO voltage between the ECG and NEUTRAL at the receptacle can be misleading. If we do get a reading, then we still need to determine of we have a poor bond at the main panel, a fault somewhere upstream or induced voltage/current due to proximity to other fixtures. Again, meters can lie based on their input impedance and what they are connected to.
In any case you have actually overlooked the MOST IMPORTANT consideration when installing a grounding probe in an aquarium: ALL of the devices connected to the aquarium really MUST be GFCI protected. Adding the grounding probe to the aquarium introduces fault scenarios that do not exist without the probe. That is, GFCIs are important, but you should NEVER run a grounding probe WITHOUT full GFCI protection of the equipment in or around the aquarium.
The easiest example to illustrate the danger introduced by the ground probe is an aquarium with a light fixture where salt creep energizes an ungrounded reflector. There are dozens of OEM and DIY fixtures that utilize ungrounded reflectors.
In a setup without a ground probe, a person leaning into the tank and also touching the reflector will not likely get shocked, as there is no path for the current to flow. The reflector stays happily energized but is insulated from ground through the high impedence of your body and the ungrounded tank water.
In a setup with a ground probe, a person leaning into the the tank and also touching the reflector creates a path to ground from the fixture, through their body and into the tank water that is grounded. If there is a GFCI, then it will trip. If there is NOT a GFCI then shock or electrocution is immanent."
More from him, if you have the time is a good read
http://www.beananimal.com/articles/electricity-for-the-reefer.aspx