Jandree,
I am one of those crazy guys that have both. Here are a couple pics of my planted tank, a little difference in time between them. I have CO2 injected. My SW tank is not a high tech, SPS tank. I lean more towards the tanks of Elysia and Aushepherd in keeping the easier stuff. I am definitely not ready for anything as difficult as what other guys out here have.
I don't think its some competition out there. Do what you like with your tanks. I never thought I would get into SW tanks, but a friend got me into it.
I keep softies and LPS, and of course the strange possible SPS. I am a low tech reef guy, just above a FOWLR tank. But hey, I enjoy what I have and that is the key. Don't stress it out. It is a hobby and to be enjoyed.
If you need to downgrade, then do so. Everything in life is temporary. If you need to change for awhile or downgrade than do so.
I love my planted tank. I love my reef tank. Do I love the tanks of Steve or Matt or lpkenneys. Sure I do. They have great tanks and inspire me to do better. Am I jealous? No, well maybe a little, I enjoy what I can do, and I love the fact that there is a local "support" group that is willing to help even the little guys like me. Will I ever go SPS? Perhaps. But for now I enjoy the little reef I got. And my planted tank as well.
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