Thanks for your service for our country. On the help side, there are some great stickies by sk8r and water keeper under the new to the hobby section. It covers all things aquatic, and keeping disease in check. I have found that most people 1, don't keep water as stable as they should, 2, way overstock or choose inappropriate livestock for tank size, and 3, don't follow a consistent maintenance schedule or try to cheap out on it. In any captive animal setup, be it production livestock, pet farms, or aquarium animals, most disease problems are caused by over stocking and inappropriate husbandry practices. Please follow people's advise to slow down on stocking, and read up. Technology has changed a lot in just the last five years in reef keeping and is ever changing. And don't take criticism so hard. We are a passionate group about the animals we keep, they are delicate, and if we aren't careful as hobbyist, will lose the ability to have any of them due to carelessness. Saltwater is not a Betta bowl or fair goldfish (even though they are treated horribly, people just view them as disposable) and we should treat them as well as we do the family dog, cat, horse, etc.