Those water changes are more than enough as a general rule I stopped doing water changes started testing and dosing and my tank has never looked better. Been 4 months since a water change
mix reef is cool but theres disadvantages to it. a mix reef will sway one way or another. more nutrients means awesome growing softies and brown sps, low nutrients means nice looking sps but slow growing softies.
To get it perfect go for easy to keep sps that keeps its its colors in hight nutrient tank. birdnest, montis, digi, ect.
to get rid of the hair algae the best mag to use is kent marine mag. theres something in that solution besides the mag the kills off the hair algae but you need to raise it to 1600-1800. Mexican turbo snails is also a good solution. you may be experiancing the hair algae due to the first year cycle.
theres 4 types of blooms you should expect with in your first year after setting up.
Hair algae
bacteria
cyno
sometimes biosis
also, newer leds over sps means pastel looking sps until they get used to it because most leds give off a completely different spectrum then any t5 or mh.
a few other things i noticed from your first post. the sea hare is dangerous to keep, if it dies it could give off more toxins then what your system can handle at one time. 2, most butterfly fish arent reef safe so make sure that one is. 3. the safty stop solution- check the bottle to make sure theres no copper to that medicine. 4. is the 90g and sump brand new or used? if its used make sure copper based medicines were not used to treat fish illnesses in the past.
maybe give this a try for a month or two to see if your tank conditions will stablize, stop dosing all solutions and just do 10% weekly water changes for two weeks. if things look better then do it for another 2 weeks. while your doing this, add some macro algae to your fuge if you have one.
after the two weeks have past and you still low on cal, mag and alk. pick up bulk reef supply 2 part along with mag or use kent marine mag for the hairalgae. i only used bulk reef supply for the past 8 years with no issues. The only other two part solution i trust is b-ionic but that raises your salinity over time if you dont check it.

, Last post before bedI tried the PAR meter, took readings at bottom, middle and top of tank for full light cycle. I have no idea how to interpret this. Each number represents an hour of my lightcycle, once it peaks it reverses the light cycle. I haven't changed this light cycle since around May.
Top: 156, 294, 415, 539, 621, 661, 675
Middle: 50, 90, 120, 165, 180, 200, 210
Bottom: 23, 54, 77, 95, 112, 119, 124
I'll probably retry the middle and bottom without my screen top as the numbers were bouncing all around and I believe it was due to the screen. When I set the meter on top of the screen I got a solid number each time.
Appreciate any input, thanks!