Tank transfered and need a little help

bills tank

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Hi everyone its been awhile since Ive talked to alot of u and wanted to give a update and see if anyone can help . So a few months ago my wife decided to leave one morning and not come back and left me and all the kids . After a month I decided it was time to file for a divorce since she wasnt acting like the person I once knew and didnt care to explain to the kids and I why she didnt want to b part of r family anymore so we had some tough times and incurd alot of legal bills to move on with r lives . A very good friend of mine has been tryen to do whatever he can to help us get thru the sadest and hardest thing weve had to deal with as a family minus one and wouldnt let up until we got our new tank setup in my family room and transfered the old ones contents from the tank in the basement and sleepless nights got filed with putting together something for my new family of me and my three kids something we can enjoy and be proud of once again in a common area of my house . Its all setup and everything is doing great without a problem so far but we need to add a few more things amd then we can enjoy and maintan it . My kids really love lps corals which I dont have any of and would like to b able to put some in the new family reef tank . If anyone has any lps corals like frogspawn ,torch hammer ,duncans etc that they can offer for either cheap or maybe even free it would b very appriciated and wed b very grateful for whatever we can find . Also if anyone has any zoas that they can help out with in the same way we would love some of those as well . Theres one coral that I had that got lost in the move and would love to b able to find as well and thats some meteor shower so if anyone has any of this stuff or anything else theyd neex to thin out and help us in filling this reef a little more it would b great and make us b avle to see some better days then the ones weve had going on . Like I said we dont have very much to spend right now as this has cost everything my household and my my parents have had in any savings and we have just one last day that is gonna rain on only us amd thats the 28th next week when I will see my wife after a food amount of time since last at our divorce hearing so if someone or anyone can bring us a little cheer amd kindness these days I would have very many thanks to u . Im gonna try to get some pics uploaded of the new tabk thanks again . Bill
 
Bill, I'm sorry to hear that your getting divorced. I was in your shoes 22 years ago, my wife did the same thing. It will get better one day at a time, we will pray for you and your family.
 
Thanks Jim . Ya its a crappy place to find urself and although it wasnt always perfect I never thought something like this would happen . Thank u for the prayers nd

And we can def use them during this time its hard to know what to say or do for three kids and a step daughter that we never had the chance to say bye too she lives with her dad now and still doesnt know that she wont get to grow up with her step bros and sister that shes spent the last five yrs living with . I just let all the kids know that I love them and it will b fine after the sadness goes away and they still have me and Im not going anywhere
 
I can help you out with some stuff, let me know what time you would like to stop by..
i got a torch, meteor shower,undata. you can have..
 
Tony that would b very nice and really cool and it would b much appriciated . Ill pm u and let u know when I can have a sitter for the kids so itll make it easier . Thanks again
 
Thanks Tony for the torch ,undata,and trumpets and the viewer u made its nice to b able to look from the top now . All ur stuff looks really nice that u have right now some sweet corals u have and that clams really cool. I still need to find a few more things if anyone else can help out let me know thanks
 
I wanna say thanks to my friends that have come together and have helped me out with something that has really helped my kids and I threw one of the hardest things weve come across and its nice that we have these types of people in this hobby that r true friends . Tony thanks for some nice stuff and as always if u need anything im here and can help u too , nathan ur tanks always looking amazing and just being able to stop over and see it makes me have a great day and thanks for the stuff today all is looking great and happy in the new home they have and the miami hurricane has me still smiling its always cool to stop by and talk , and James Ill call u tomorrow and setup a time to stop by Im looking forward to ur great tanks as well and seeing how that cali tort is looking and I know itll b nice for sure and glad I was able to bring that to ur tank . Thanks again guys u r all good men and friends and me and the kids r happy to b able to say we r ur friends .
 
Hey bud, My father has frogspawn going crazy in his tank and I am pretty sure he is looking to get rid of some of it. If you still have his number shoot him a text or let me know if ya don't have it. I need to swing over and see the new setup sometime too.
 
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