Nems will split if they are well fed, fat, and happy. If your nem has remained in the same spot and expands daily, then I would go for every-other-day feedings for 2 weeks or until it splits, which ever comes first. I give this advice based on my BTA splitting 8-10 times in 5 years. Each time it splits, the "baby" is as big as the mother in 1-2 weeks, and stays right next to her as opposed to moving away (a sign of an unhappy nem). My nem, by the way, captures PE mysis daily that go into the tank for feeding the fish. So the feedings are not heavy, but very routine.