Its fine to use primer on the PVC pipe if you want.. Just not the ABS pipe..
I think you are overthinking yourself right into cold feet..
Glue the darn pipe already

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Spoke to Oatey this morning before seeing your reply. They, too, said okay to prime the PVC.
Re overthinking things, this has been the most engineering/trouble-shooting intensive, difficult/challenging build I've ever done (and I've done at least eight or nine over the last 20+ years.....). Starting with the royally F'ed up bracing as received from Coast to Coast that I had to remove and replace, to needing to shim the sh*t out of the stand to get uniform support under the tank, to leaky bulkheads all over the place, to putting my hand through the glass wall of one of the above-referenced 20 g tanks as I was trying to push a 2" pipe into a uniseal (used them many times, never with that much difficulty), I have had many, many moments where, but for the amount of time and $$$$$ invested so far, I would have taken a sledge hammer to the tank and walked away...... Seems like it's constantly two steps forward, one step back. Coming up on three years since I ordered the tank.....