I got my RBTA a few months after I set up my tank, and right now it is doing great. I got it bleached and thought it was pink, turned out to be blood red. Take your time, but it can be tough initially. One thing I have heard good things about is get some saltwater from lfs or local reefer that comes from their tanks and put it in yours. This of course is when you are initially cycling. Add sugar (dosage is somewhere on here) and the bacteria should thrive. Some anemones are much easier than other. BTAs are great for someone who has never kept anemones before.