Awesome, thanks guys!
Just an update, he finally decided the bloodworms I've been offering are up to snuff enough to eat, or he decided he didn't want to starve anymore. I've been trying different frozen mixed foods with no success this entire time but every time I put them in the tank he does get excited and chases them around. He's mouthed and spit out quite a few brine shrimp, never touched a single mysis. Eyeballs pellets but never bites, follow flake around giving in the stink eye but nothing. Tonight as I was putting in some mixed once again (for the goby and everyone else in the tank and HOPEFULLY him) he once again got excited, ate nothing, chased stuff around, etc but then right after I put in the frozen I threw some dried bloodworms in just to see. I noticed he always hangs out around my overflow section where stuff gets sucked into and pods like to live in the sponge right behind it.
So, he started popping bloodworms right off the surface. In spots they get stuck to the glass or whatever, he went after em and actually ate them. Woooo! He even chased a few blown around by my in korelia nano and snatched em out of the water column.
Not sure if he just needed to starve long enough, or make the association that my turkey baster and food coming into the tank meant he wasn't going to get tasty live pods delivered every time or what, but regardless I'm relieved.
I did already order a bunch of mixed pods with plans to grow them, so I'll probably still go that route at some point. Until then at least I won't have a starving fish!
Also, not sure if its normal for other fish, but he makes a very audible click when he eats. I actually thought it was my pistol shrimp popping off a few times when I heard it before, but after seeing him eat its apparent it's definitely him.